Monday, August 27, 2012

Decisions

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions. We all have to make them, basically every day. Everyone makes different decisions every day, every week, every month, and every year. To be honest, just like some people in this world ,I don't want to make decisions. Sometimes, decision in like, whatever they are, can be hard, and people just don't want to make hard decisions, and I can say, sometimes I am one of those people. Some people say, the farther in life you get, the harder the decisions are. But, maybe sometimes, those decision are easy decisions sometimes.

But, I am in my last year of High School, so I guess after that, the more decisions I am going to have to make. But, even now for instance, I still have decision to make. And some of them are hard. And people expect me to make a decision right away, like it would be so easy for them. But, the truth is, it's not easy at all. For everyone, decisions are different, and can be easy or hard for them. Sometimes, I am good at making decisions. But, when your in high school, and growing up, you have all these people that you could go to, to ask "What decision should I make". "Is this going to be a good decision, or a bad one".
I liked that, and still like that. I like a little guidance in my decision making, because it helps me decide more, and even think about it more. When I was younger, and growing up through Elementary School, I would ask my friends what I should do, when I make a decision. And most times, I would listen and do what they said. I know, you should take in to account and think about what they say, but that you don't necessarily don't have to do what they say, because in the end, it is your choice. But, I was little back then, so of course I would listen to why friends. 

But now, today, and years to come, I have to learn to make the decision, even the important ones, to make by myself. Yes, I will make new friends when I go off to college and in later years, and I might ask them or tell them about a decision I have to make and ask their opinion. But, ultimately, I do have to make the decision by myself. 

So, all in all. It is good to go to someone for guidance, or help, when you have to make a decision, whether it's a important one or a little one. But in the end, YOU have to make the decision. Yes, somewhere along the way, you might make the wrong decision, or not the best one. But, that's life, and you'll learn from it. <3